Halo peeps, how do you guys spent yours V-day?
If you are in love, I hope you choke on a Chocolate.
If you are single, Happy Singles Awareness Day
I was spending V-day alone.
I thought, he supposed to be with me.
Whatever-la! As usual, I used to spend alone in every festival, holiday or celebration. =)
But actually Jien ringing me on last night, he asked me out for a dinner.
But I refused him as usual.
I’m definitely a homely person, so called 宅女. I prefer to stay at home rather than going out. It’s too late to apologize, I knew.
May I get a Relationship Talk in this post?
Why that is easy to fall into a relationship, but so hard to maintain?
Talk as much as you can.
Find some time to talk to each-other about what is going on in your life and share as much as you can. It is pretty important that you know what your partner is thinking about some topics in particular, like if he is feeling good about your relationship or not, or how he is doing at work. It is also pretty important for you to talk to your partner about your feelings and how things are doing in your life.
I know, prettily did.
But that’s not for him. He did not know.
Tell the truth.
Truth is the ultimate aphrodisiac and a great way to create connection with your partner.
For example, you might say "I feel safe when I am with you" or "Sometimes I feel scared that we get so busy with other things that we forget about creating close moments together, but I really want to be close with you." Just share your true feelings and speak from your experience. If you are concealing in your relationship, you will not feel connected, so consider making truth an ongoing priority in your life.
I’m not daring to tell him. I don’t wish he feel that I was too relying on him. Willing to put him on stress?!
Appreciate yourself and your partner.
Appreciation means "to grow in value, or to be sensitively aware of." Take time to understand just what it is that you like about yourself, and your partner. Saying for example, "I really appreciate how dedicated you are to your job." Successful relationships have a 5 to 1 ratio of appreciations to criticisms, so if you really want to heat up your relationship, start appreciating!
I hope I got a successfully husband, not the rich as millionaire or billionaire, but unless he got the responsibility to be a kind husband and a lovely daddy.
Care. Love. Got a good job that is alright to adoptive his own family.
I do appreciate lots.
Btw, I will be a good wife and mommy too. And I really do.
✿ ✿ ✿ ✿ ✿ ✿ ✿ ✿
刚到手的时候疼人家到骨子里去,
每天给她打十几个电话,发几十条信息,
她说什么你都铭记在心,想吃什么,想买什么,
想去哪里你都会尽全力去满足,温柔体贴无微不至,
巴不得二十四个小时都能跟她呆在一起,一开始总是包容,
就算她的生活习惯与你不同也会努力的调试配合,一切一切都是美好的
久了腻了,每天别说几十个电话就连1个电话都懒得打,打电话只说具体情况,无关要紧的情趣话都省了,
信息更不用说了,她发10条你回有一半你就觉得你回的已经够多了,就连她打电话给你你都觉得她啰嗦,
你不会再为她想吃早点而早起床,不会再为她排队买她想要东西,你不会专门请假带她去她想去的地方,
你会觉得她什么事都依赖着你,总学不会独立,小事大事豆让你觉得她麻烦事特别多,特别烦,感到很无奈
接着发现她的缺点越来越多,她的优点快被她的缺点掩盖,忍无可忍,最后,厌了
潇洒的用分手吧,一句简单的言语结束了复杂的感情或耗着等着,
直到有一天她受不了忽冷忽热或若即若离的态度自己选择离开,
你还可以说是她自己离你而去,你没有负心.
男人,你记不记得你曾经说过,我永远都会对你这么好,一辈子都这样爱着你宠着你
不是她的麻烦事特多,是你一开始就说得做得太到位,才会让她渐渐的依赖上了你
记不记得你曾经说过,不管多晚,睡不着,打电话给我,我的手机24小时都为你开机
那你又嫌她不体贴,白天工作的时候打电话打扰到了你,辛苦了一天晚上要睡觉了
她还缠着你不肯挂线,是谁让她养成何时何地想打电话给你就打电话给你的习惯
她无理取闹,是因为从某一个时间段你的态度变了,你开始冷落她了,让她觉得没了安全感,由使她起疑心
不是不信任你,不给你空间而是爱你,在乎你,用尽所有时间去关心你,你的生活细微改变牵扯着她的情绪
她脾气不好因为她知道了很多事情,你不说,她选择沉默,积压到一定的时间她就会爆发心中的所有怨气
要知道,这一些都不是她脾气不好,是你不够细心发觉,她们是一直积压下来的,她不再跟以前一样动人
当初是谁说不喜欢她每天变化多端像只花蝴蝶,是谁说喜欢她素颜的清纯模样
虽说喜新厌旧是人性,除了毛主席跟古董以外由什么东西看久了都会审美疲劳
但她不是东西,她是个活生生有着感情的人
你不再给她答案,不再给她承诺,不希望你以后做不到让这些答案跟承诺变成谎言
那你以前又给她那么多答案,给她那么多承诺,现在为自己铺好后路可以前承诺过的叫她怎么忘记?
女人不怕诺言没实现,怕的是你承诺了又不去实现,最后实不实现也只是另一个问题
你忙,你没时间没精力讨好她,你不知道她现在在想什么?
那你以前不忙吗,以前不是把全部时间用来讨好她而不工作,钠你以前怎么那么细心观察她在想什么
你觉得你们不配,你不想她再浪费感情在这段没结果的爱情上,那你一开始追她干嘛?做实验吗?
她都已经浪费这么多感情了,你当感情是水龙头吗,说开就开说关就关
对,这一切都是你给自己找的借口,别以为换个女朋友就可以永远摆脱那种感情暗淡时期,
因为不久的将来你还是得回到这种时光,下个女朋友也是,下下个女朋友也是,下下下个女朋友也是,
有种你一辈子不谈恋爱不结婚 !
男人们,看完了回想一下你们的那段美好时光,趁现在没有人偷偷想想是不是你们给自己找借口了?
那个以前深爱的女人现在就那么不值得你爱了么?
别说瞎了狗眼才在一起,你没瞎也不要侮辱到狗,后悔分手努力追回来,以后用心经营感情
其实女人要的很简单,一个爱自己男人就够了,要分手考虑清楚,不是每段感情都可以挽回
考虑太久也不行,因为她们可以忍耐你冷落她一段时间,但她们不会一辈子这样傻下去
她们再怎么傻,也只会给自己一个时间段,去忍受你给的冷落,去相信你给她的爱
时间一到,她会毫不犹豫离开,再多甜言蜜语也没用,因为世上没谁离开谁就活不了
恋爱中的,好好珍惜现在那个愿意照顾你,体谅你,愿意陪你承担风雨的傻女人吧
过了这个村或许就没这个店,到时间结婚的就结婚吧,不要再拖拖拉拉婆婆妈妈
结婚证一领就像买了保险,至少心里都有底了
爱情,就像煮粥,滚烫的时候加点配料它就是够火候又有滋有味的;
等到忘记关火煮焦了的时候,你闻都不想闻它甚至你连锅都想把它扔了;
看好你的火吧,爱情就像煮粥一样,需拿捏得好,耐心是配料,用心是味道
A heart note shared out by EVN.
It’s realistic.
Every word, every meaning, every phrase
Truly reach my heart; deeply piercing my heart.
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